I am proudly bragging about my awesome husband, this post is dedicated to him because he is an awesome dad!
During a discussion we were having last night, the topic of under and unappreciated dads came up. And he is right. There are many fathers out there being the full-time caregivers or are single parents. And yet somehow the focus is always on the mother.
I get it, more often than not the women are the ones doing the child caring and rearing (with or without a partner), so the focus is typically on what more can be done to care for her needs. But in these times of job flexibility, work from home scenarios, women having more earning power and blah blah blah, there are more men stepping up and taking on roles that have previously been considered “women’s’ work”.
Optimus falls into this category, well the work from home part. I am employed outside of the home, so every day we split the responsibilities of getting the kids schedules down and into action. He helps get them ready in the morning and out the door to school, and does pick up in the afternoons. This means he’s usually the only dad collecting Tails from the playground at preschool and the only dad at the bus stop in the afternoon. And while that happens, he’s pushing a stroller or wearing Rosie. He does snack time, play time, diaper time, feeding time, nap time and any other time; all while running his own businesses.
Our family wouldn’t work without him as much as it wouldn’t work without me. I am thankful for the flexibility his career allows us, and I am grateful that our children have the opportunity to really bond with their father. It makes him a better person in all ways, and it makes me love and appreciate him more.
So say thanks and show a little love to the man (or men) in your life that add so much to it, let them know how much what they do means to you!